For many churches, the word sex is a four letter word.  But this last Sunday, we tackled question about sex because, well… You asked for it!

I mentioned that singles are feed many lies when it comes to the sensitive subject of sex. 

The challenge was…Don’t buy into the lies!  So, what are the lies?

There are five myths…lies that are easy to buy into.  

1. Sex is just a physical thing…in other words, it is no big deal.  You have a “drive,” a sex drive and it is just a physical thing. Well, that is a LIE!  Sex is a multi-faced, complex thing.  It was given to us as a gift from God and is much more than just a physical thing…it is physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.
2. Sex is a powerful drive that cannot be controlled. LIE!  You are not that weak.  It is true that this “drive” is strong and if you don’t make the decision before you get there, it is very hard to control your emotions and your drive if you are in the heat of the moment.  But you don’t have to be controlled!
3. Sexual compatibility is important.  Ya, Ya…you don’t buy a car without a “test drive.”  So maybe you ought to see if you are going to be compatible sexually.  That is assuming that you can find compatibility.  The truth is that no two people are exactly compatible.  Sex compatibility is found in the middle of commitment.  Added to just common sense is the fact that premarital sex produces fear and insecurity.  Big price to pay for empty compatibility.  LIE.
4. Sex is o.k. - because we love each other.  LIE.  If you love each other you’ll wait.  If you love each other, you will express love rightly!
5. Sexual sin is not unforgivable. True!  But when you go into something wanting to be forgiven…when you knowingly do the wrong thing.  There is more damage to your heart, your spirit, your soul.  Ask David…he was forgiven for his adultery but the damage to his heart was huge!

Remember…Sexual freedom only comes from honoring God.  With freedom there is…No Worries!